Destiny's Angels - HELP KEEP BLACK WOMEN SAFE 24/7

DESTINY'S ANGELS - HELP KEEP BLACK WOMEN SAFE 24/7 

Peace, my name is Shanique "Destiny Love" Hyde, and I'm the founder of C.H.S (Confident H.O.E Society)  a.k.a Healers On Earth - a safe space for ALL women and LGBTQIA+ individuals in and out of the Adult Entertainment industry. I never thought I'd have to make a fundraiser like this, but after a traumatic assault that left me violated, shaken, and fearful for my life.... I realized I couldn't go through this alone. 

WHAT HAPPENED: 

On June 16, 2025, I was harassed and physically attacked by two complete strangers. It all started due to a line confusion at The Blue Dolphin Fish Market in Jamaica, Queens (NYC). I allegedly skipped a Man who was waiting on line for his food (the restaurant was crowded), and he began to verbally get aggressive with me. I dismissed his aggression, and suddenly as I was waiting for my food he called his girlfriend on me to attack and violate me. His girlfriend not only bullied me, she stole my phone (and left with it), as I was trying to call the cops. I asked the restaurant staff if I could use their phone, and they told me No whilst allowing the harassment to happen in their establishment.

When her boyfriend placed my stolen phone back inside on top of a trash can next to the front door of the restaurant  (5 mins after his gf verbally harassed me)... He used that to bait me into her attacking me as I retrieved my stolen phone back. She viciously assaulted me - hitting me repeatedly in my head  while he stood by and continued to antagonize the situation. This violent Woman, and her Man are still unidentified and neither them nor the restaurant has been held accountable. Although I filed a police report, and spoke to a detective that night - I don't think the police are taking my case as serious as I would like for them to. I feel so alone in this. 

The entire situation was humiliating, terrifying, and public. Since then, I've been battling anxiety, fear, and paranoia - especially when traveling alone or even stepping outside. I'm currently unable to work due to how deeply this trauma has affected me mentally and emotionally. I understand things could've been worse, and I'm grateful to be alive to give my testimony, but I did suffer a concussion. I feel unsafe... and no one should have to feel like that just for existing. 

WHY I'M FUNDRAISING: 

Asking for money is not easy for me. Since I'm a sex-positive Black Woman and former Adult Entertainer, people sometimes assume that I have endless cash or that I'm "money hungry" - but that couldn't be farther from the truth. I'm a single mother, an advocate, and a survivor trying to heal while still showing up for others. 

           *****Here's what these funds will help cover:

- Safe Transportation: I'm currently afraid of taking public transportation alone. These funds will help cover Uber rides for essential travel (like doctor visits/ therapy), and errands while I rebuild my sense of safety. 

-Driving Lessons: So I can regain my independence and reduce the need for costly ride-shares long term. 

- Personal Security: Hiring a professional bodyguard is expensive, but I often travel alone to community events and don't feel safe without protection. I know I'm not Beyonce, but I do have a following on social media, and I often feel targeted while outside alone. 

- Self Defense Training: I want to take proper classes to defend myself if I'm ever attacked again - and eventually help others do the same. 

-Byrna (Non - Lethal Weapon): A non-lethal way to protect myself and reclaim my peace of mind. 

- Ongoing Emotional Recovery: I receive Medicaid covered therapy, but Medicaid doesn't always cover crisis like instances. These funds help bridge the gaps while I heal. 

- Community Safety Initiatives: I don't just want to protect myself. I want to use a portion of these funds to provide Brynas and group self - defense classes for other Women - esp Black Trans Women, and others often left vulnerable - through Healers On Earth. 

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WHY $7,777 ? 

I chose this number because it reflects completion, spiritual alignment, and divine protection. It's also representative of Angel Numbers. It's not too little and not too much - just enough to cover basic safety needs, healing support, and initial community investments. 

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Final Thoughts:

If you've ever followed me, learned from me, or seen how I show up for others - please consider showing up for me right now. This isn't just about one incident. It's about breaking the cycle of violence and fear that so many Black Women, femmes, and sex workers live with everyday. 

I may be physically alone most days, but I believe I'm protected by something greater - my angels. If you feel called to be one of them, your donation (no matter how small), means the world to me. If you can't donate right now, I understand - but  please share this fundraiser with someone who can. 

Thank You for helping me reclaim my safety.

Thank you for helping us ALL heal...

With Love, 

Destiny